Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew: Revised and Updated

Commendation Quotes:
"Ten Things is so essential that I recommend it constantly." Jennifer McIlwee Myers, author of How to Teach Life Skills to Kids with Autism or Asperger's and Growing Up with Sensory Issues: Insider Tips from a Woman with Autism

Commendation Quotes:
Praise for Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew (previous editions)

Commendation Quotes:
"This is quite an unusual book, promoting a new paradigm, (a whole new outlook) on autism . . . these aren't ten baby concepts which will only hold true for a small part of your child's life. They're adult ones, mantras for living-and they apply forever."

Commendation Quotes:
"A superb explanation of how sensory processing challenges can affect a child's behavior, and how occupational therapy in a sensory integration framework can effect wondrous changes."

Table of Contents:
Chapter One: I am a whole child.
Chapter Two: My senses are out of sync.
Chapter Three: See the difference between won't (I choose not to) and can't (I'm not able to).
Chapter Four: I am a concrete thinker. I interpret language literally.
Chapter Five: Listen to all the ways I'm trying to communicate.
Chapter Six: Picture this! I am visually oriented.
Chapter Seven: Focus and build on what I can do rather than what I can't do.
Chapter Eight: Help me be social.
Chapter Nine: Identify what triggers my meltdowns.
Chapter Ten: Love me without "if."


Commendation Quotes:
"Written with passion and sensitivity, this book's goal is to help parents teach their autistic children to function in everyday life. The skills that parents will learn through its chapters will be relevant throughout the child's life, long after they've transitioned into adulthood . . . A well-written book peppered with a sense of humor."

Commendation Quotes:
" Ten Things is so essential that I recommend it constantly."

Description for Sales People:
Over 250,000 copies sold!
AWARDS and HONORS:

"The new edition of Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew is better than ever. This is essential reading for people who are important in your child's life, be it teachers, therapists, family members, neighbors and even the bus driver, to help them understand your child's complex and sometimes baffling social, sensory, behavioral, and emotional challenges. Written by the mother of two sons on the spectrum, this book gives a powerful voice to kids, teens, and adults who can't easily advocate for themselves, providing an "inside view" of the different realities of life with autism. The new chapter on 'Your Power of Choice, ' compassionately helps readers recognize that while they may feel overwhelmed, scared, and sometimes paralyzed, they are never powerless, and provides key empowering steps they can take to help those they love thrive and live meaningful, productive lives."

This third edition of Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew is the best yet! As an international consultant on ASD who works with individuals, schools, and parents, I have used this resource as a core teaching tool in most of my trainings. I was really excited to see the new chapter on the Power of Choice. As Ellen writes: "Seldom is the instance in which we truly have no choices" and this is so true. It empowers the individual to have control in a world that in many ways feels out of control. A must have for your autism resource collection.

"As a parent, as one who works with autistic people, and as an avid reader on the subject, I'm telling you: you must have this book on your shelf. Parents who made it through your child's early years with hope and optimism because you had the original Ten Things, you need this update. . . (it) will take you from the preschool years through high school and beyond, as parents prepare children for adulthood. The questions for discussion and reflection are perfect for parent support groups, teacher trainings, or book clubs. Optimism abounds."

"Not just a compassionate and person-centered look at autism, Ten Things is also a reflection on evolving understandings of advocacy, support, and ability.

"This third edition is amazing, and an absolute must-read. Ellen has absorbed so much more wisdom from both the autism world and the autistic world and poured it into her work, and I'm floored. Buy this book, read it, loan it, share it, then read it again!"

"The third edition explains our evolving insights into autism that are so valuable for parents, professionals, and those who have autism. Please grant the wish of the autistic child that you know and absorb the wisdom and clarity of a book that I highly recommend."

"Parents will fi nd a compassionate, astute ally who has lived the journey...Ten Things contains a remarkable amount of detailed information, helpful suggestions, and concrete strategies. Realistic, practical, and uplifting."

"Essential reading for people who are important in your child's life, to help them understand your child's complex social, sensory, behavioral, and emotional challenges ...helps readers recognize that while they may feel overwhelmed, they are never powerless."

"Empowers the individual to have control in a world that in many ways feels out of control. A must-have for your autism resource collection."

"Great book for the parent of a child who is newly diagnosed. It will help the parent who is frightened by the diagnosis get started on creating a positive outcome for their child." -- Temple Grandin, PhD, Author of The Way I See It and Thinking in Pictures

"This third edition is amazing, and an absolute must-read. Ellen has absorbed so much more wisdom from both the autism world and the autistic world and poured it into her work, and I'm floored. Buy this book, read it, loan it, share it, then read it again!" -- Jennifer McIlwee Myers, Author of Growing Up with Sensory Issues: Insider Tips from a Woman with Autism and How to Teach Life Skills to Kids with Autism or Asperger's

"Empowers the individual to have control in a world that in many ways feels out of control. A must-have for your autism resource collection." -- Jim Ball, EdD, BCBA-D, President/CEO JB Autism Consulting

"Parents will fi nd a compassionate, astute ally who has lived the journey...Ten Things contains a remarkable amount of detailed information, helpful suggestions, and concrete strategies. Realistic, practical, and uplifting." -- Debra Moore, PhD, Psychologist and Coauthor with Temple Grandin of The Loving Push: How Parents and Professionals Can Help Spectrum Kids Become Successful Adults

"Not just a compassionate and person-centered look at autism, Ten Things is also a reflection on evolving understandings of advocacy, support, and ability." --Paula Kluth, PhD, Author of You're Going to Love This Kid and Pedro's Whale

"The third edition explains our evolving insights into autism that are so valuable for parents, professionals, and those who have autism. Please grant the wish of the autistic child that you know and absorb the wisdom and clarity of a book that I highly recommend." -- Tony Attwood, PhD, Author of Ask Dr. Tony: Answers from the World's Leading Authority on Asperger's Syndrome/High-Functioning Autism

"Essential reading for people who are important in your child's life, to help them understand your child's complex social, sensory, behavioral, and emotional challenges ...helps readers recognize that while they may feel overwhelmed, they are never powerless." -- Lindsey Biel, Occupational Therapist, Coauthor of Raising a Sensory Smart Child: The Definitive Book for Helping Your Child with Sensory Processing Issues and Author of Sensory Processing Strategies

"As a parent, as one who works with autistic people, and as an avid reader on the subject, I'm telling you: you must have this book on your shelf. Parents who made it through your child's early years with hope and optimism because you had the original Ten Things, you need this update. . . (it) will take you from the preschool years through high school and beyond, as parents prepare children for adulthood. The questions for discussion and reflection are perfect for parent support groups, teacher trainings, or book clubs. Optimism abounds." -- Wendela Whitcomb Marsh, MA, BCBA, RSD, Author of The ABC's of Autism in the Classroom

"How wonderful that Ellen Notbohm's classic, Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew, is here for a new generation! If your child has been diagnosed with autism, or if you think that your child may have autism, this is the first book that you should read." -- Bobbi Sheahan, Author of What I Wish I'd Known about Raising a Child with Autism

The Autism Trail Guide, Ten Things Your Student with Autism Wishes You Knew, 1001 Great Ideas for Teaching and Raising Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders, The River by Starlight

"Great book for the parent of a child who is newly diagnosed. It will help the parent who is frightened by the diagnosis get started on creating a positive outcome for their child."
-- Temple Grandin, PhD, Author of The Way I See It and Thinking in Pictures

"This third edition is amazing, and an absolute must-read. Ellen has absorbed so much more wisdom from both the autism world and the autistic world and poured it into her work, and I'm floored. Buy this book, read it, loan it, share it, then read it again!"
-- Jennifer McIlwee Myers, Author of Growing Up with Sensory Issues: Insider Tips from a Woman with Autism and How to Teach Life Skills to Kids with Autism or Asperger's

"This third edition of Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew is without exception the best yet! As an international consultant on ASD who works with individuals, schools, and parents, I have used this resource as a core teaching tool in most of my trainings, especially with staff who are new to the field of Special Education and/or working with an individual with ASD. I was really excited to see the new chapter on Your Power of Choice. As Ellen writes: 'Seldom is the instance in which we truly have no choices, ' and this is so true. It empowers the individual to have control in a world that in many ways feels out of control. This book is a must have for your autism resource collection."
-- Jim Ball, EdD, BCBA-D, President/CEO JB Autism Consulting

"Every child with autism deserves to have the adults in their life read this book. Parents will find a compassionate, astute ally who has lived the journey with her now-adult son. All readers will clarify and refine their understanding of what it really takes to help a child fit into the world, achieve a state of confidence, and fulfill their unique promise. Compact, well organized and accessible, it contains a remarkable amount of detailed information, helpful suggestions, and concrete strategies. Realistic, practical, and uplifting, it will help you make the best choices for both your child and yourself. It is on my 'short list' of highly recommended books on autism. I urge you to soak up its wisdom and then share it with others."
-- Debra Moore, PhD, Psychologist (retired) and Coauthor with Temple Grandin of The Loving Push: How Parents and Professionals Can Help Spectrum Kids Become Successful Adults

"Ellen Notbohm reminds us once again that we should learn more than we teach and that we should listen more than we talk. Ten Things emphasizes these points and offers readers important insights and invaluable information. If you have a 1st or 2nd edition, you will want to purchase a new copy as this book is not just a compassionate and person-centered look at autism, it is also a reflection of a changing field and evolving understandings of advocacy, support, and ability."
-- Paula Kluth, PhD, Author of You're Going to Love This Kid and Pedro's Whale

"The third edition explains our evolving insights into autism that are so valuable for parents, professionals, and those who have autism. Please grant the wish of the autistic child that you know and absorb the wisdom and clarity of a book that I highly recommend."
-- Tony Attwood, PhD, Author of Ask Dr. Tony: Answers from the World's Leading Authority on Asperger's Syndrome/High-Functioning Autism

"The new edition of Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew is better than ever. This is essential reading for people who are important in your child's life, to help them understand your child's complex and sometimes baffling social, sensory, behavioral, and emotional challenges. This book gives a powerful voice to kids, teens, and adults who can't easily advocate for themselves, providing an 'inside view' of the different realities of life with autism. The new chapter on 'Your Power of Choice' compassionately helps readers recognize that while they may feel overwhelmed, scared, and sometimes paralyzed, they are never powerless, and provides key empowering steps they can take to help those they love thrive and live meaningful, productive lives."
-- Lindsey Biel, Occupational Therapist, Coauthor of Raising a Sensory Smart Child: The Definitive Book for Helping Your Child with Sensory Processing Issues, Author of Sensory Processing Strategies: Effective Clinical Work with Kids & Teens

"As a parent, as one who works with autistic people, and as an avid reader on the subject, I'm telling you: you must have this book on your shelf. Parents who made it through your child's early years with hope and optimism because you had the original Ten Things, you need this update. . . (it) will take you from the preschool years through high school and beyond, as parents prepare children for adulthood. The questions for discussion and reflection are perfect for parent support groups, teacher trainings, or book clubs. Optimism abounds."
-- Wendela Whitcomb Marsh, MA, BCBA, RSD, Author of The ABC's of Autism in the Classroom

"How wonderful that Ellen Notbohm's classic, Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew, is here for a new generation! If your child has been diagnosed with autism, or if you think that your child may have autism, this is the first book that you should read."
-- Bobbi Sheahan, Author of What I Wish I'd Known about Raising a Child with Autism

One of the autism community's most beloved classics, Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew has informed, delighted, and guided millions of families and professionals the world over since its first edition was published in 2005. A child's voice leads into each chapter, offering a one-of-a-kind exploration into how ten core characteristics of autism affect our children's perceptions and reactions to the surrounding physical, sensory and social environments. The third edition sharpens the focus on these basic aspects while expanding on how our own perspectives shape the life of our child and ourselves, today, tomorrow, and for years to come. An all-new section illuminates the surprising breadth of our power of choice and outlines potent strategies for strong decision-making in every situation.

Contributor Bio:Notbohm, Ellen
Ellen Notbohm's work touches millions in more than 25 languages. She is author of the perennial bestseller Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew, three other award-winning books on autism, the acclaimed novel The River by Starlight, and numerous short works appearing in publications worldwide. Ellen's books have won more than 30 awards, including the CIBA Grand Prize for Instruction and Insight, Independent Publishers of America Gold Medal for Nonfiction Series, American Book Fest's Legacy Nonfiction and Fiction Awards, the Eric Hoffer Book Awards for Reference/Education and Legacy Nonfiction, and numerous finalist awards across multiple genres.