{"product_id":"sex-at-dawn-how-we-mate-why-we-stray-and-what-it-means-for-modern-relationships","title":"Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships","description":"\u003ctable align=\"center\" border=\"0\" cellpadding=\"2\" cellspacing=\"0\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd class=\"productDetailSmallElements\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBrief Description\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\"A controversial, idea-driven book that challenges everything you know about sex, marriage, family, and society\"--Provided by publisher.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMarc Notes\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tOriginally published in hardcover in 2010, with a different subtitle.;Includes bibliographical references (p. [317]-382) and index.;A controversial, idea-driven book that challenges everything you know about sex, marriage, family, and society--Provided by publisher.;Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha debunk almost everything we know about sex, pulling together various evidence from anthropology, primatology, archaeology, anatomy, and psychosexuality, to show how monogomy is far from human nature. The authors expose the ancient roots of human sexuality while pointing toward a more optimistic future illuminated by our innate capacities for love, cooperation, and generosity.--P. 4 of cover.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eTable of Contents\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tPreface: A Primate Meets His Match (A note from one of the authors) -- Introduction: Another Well-intentioned Inquisition -- A Few Million Years in a Few Pages -- Part I. On The Origin Of The Specious -- 1. Remember the YucatAn! -- You Are What You Eat -- 2. What Darwin Didn't Know About Sex -- The Flintstonization of Prehistory -- What Is Evolutionary Psychology and Why Should You Care? -- Lewis Henry Morgan -- 3. A Closer Look at the Standard Narrative of Human Sexual Evolution -- How Darwin Insults Your Mother (The Dismal Science of Sexual Economics) -- The Famously Flaccid Female Libido -- Male Parental Investment (MPI) -- Mixed Strategies in the War Between the Sexes -- Extended Sexual Receptivity and Concealed Ovulation -- 4. The Ape in the Mirror -- Primates and Human Nature -- Doubting the Chimpanzee Model -- In Search of Primate Continuity -- Part II. Lust in paradise (solitary?) -- 5. Who Lost What in Paradise? -- On Getting Funky and Rockin Round the Clock -- 6. Who's Your Daddies? -- The Joy of S.E.Ex. -- The Promise of Promiscuity -- Bonobo Beginnings -- 7. Mommies Dearest -- Nuclear Meltdown -- 8. Making a Mess of Marriage, Mating, and Monogamy -- Marriage: The Fundamental Condition of the Human Species? -- On Matrimonial Whoredom -- 9. Paternity Certainty: The Crumbling Cornerstone of the Standard Narrative -- Love, Lust, and Liberty at Lugu Lake -- On the Inevitability of Patriarchy -- The March of the Monogamous -- 10. Jealousy: A Beginner's Guide to Coveting Thy Neighbor's Spouse -- Zero-Sum Sex -- How to Tell When a Man Loves a Woman -- Part III. The Way We Weren't -- 11. The Wealth of Nature (Poor?) -- Poor, Pitiful Me -- The Despair of Millionaires -- Finding Contentment at the Bottom of the Scale of Human Beings -- 12. The Selfish Meme (Nasty?) -- Homo Economicus -- The Tragedy of the Commons -- Dreams of Perpetual Progress -- Ancient Poverty or Assumed Affluence? -- On Paleolithic Politics -- 13. The Never-Ending Battle over Prehistoric War (Brutish?) -- Professor Pinker, Red in Tooth and Claw -- The Mysterious Disappearance of Margaret Power -- The Spoils of War -- The Napoleonic Invasion (The Yanomami Controversy) -- The Desperate Search for Hippie Hypocrisy and Bonobo Brutality -- 14. The Longevity Lie (Short?) -- When Does Life Begin ? When Does It End? -- Is 80 the New 30? -- Stressed to Death -- Who You Calling a Starry-Eyed Romantic, Pal? -- Part IV. Bodies In Motion -- 15. Little Big Man -- All's Fair in Love and Sperm War -- 16. The Truest Measure of a Man -- Hard Core in the Stone Age -- 17. Sometimes a Penis Is Just a Penis -- 18. The Prehistory of O -- What Horrid Extravagancies ofMinde! -- Beware the Devil's Teat -- The Force Required to Suppress It -- 19. When Girls Go Wild -- Female Cofulatory Vocalization -- Sin Tetas, No Hay ParaIso -- Come Again? -- Part V. Men are from Africa, Women are From Africa -- 20. On Mona Lisa's Mind -- 21. The Pervert's Lament -- Just Say What? -- Kelloggs Guide to Child Abuse -- The Curse of Calvin Coolidge -- The Perils of Monotomy (Monogamy+ Monotony) -- 22. Confronting the Sky Together -- Everybody Out of the Closet -- The Marriage of the Sun and the Moon -- Authors Note -- Acknowledgments -- Notes -- References and Suggested Further Reading -- Index.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBrief Description\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e Sex at Dawn challenges conventional wisdom about sex in a big way. By examining the prehistoric origins of human sexual behavior the authors are able to expose the fallacies and weaknesses of standard theories proposed by most experts. This is a provocative, entertaining, and pioneering book. I learned a lot from it and recommend it highly. Andrew Weil, M.D.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e Sex at Dawn irrefutably shows that what is obvious that human beings, both male and female, are lustful is true, and has always been so . The more dubious its evidentiary basis and lack of connection with current reality, the more ardently the scientific inevitability of monogamy is maintained even as it falls away around us. Stanton Peele, Ph.D. \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA controversial, idea-driven book that challenges everything you (think you) know about sex, monogamy, marriage, and family. In the words of Steve Taylor (The Fall, Waking From Sleep), Sex at Dawn is a wonderfully provocative and well-written book which completely re-evaluates human sexual behavior and gets to the root of many of our social and psychological ills. \"\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eJacket Description\/Back\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIn this controversial, thought-provoking, and brilliant book, renegade thinkers Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá debunk almost everything we \"know\" about sex, weaving together convergent, frequently overlooked evidence from anthropology, archaeology, primatology, anatomy, and psychosexuality to show how far from human nature monogamy really is. In \u003cem\u003eSex at Dawn\u003c\/em\u003e, the authors expose the ancient roots of human sexuality while pointing toward a more optimistic future illuminated by our innate capacities for love, cooperation, and generosity.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eReview Quotes\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha have written the essential corrective to the evolutionary psychology literature. Sex at Dawn irrefutably shows that what is obvious--that human beings, both male and female, are lustful--is true, and has always been so. The urgent sexuality that is everywhere apparent in human society and which requires layers of religious, social, and psychological suppression was likewise a constant feature on the African savannah. The more dubious its evidentiary basis and lack of connection with current reality, the more ardently the scientific inevitability of monogamy is maintained--even as it falls away around us. Thus Darwin and science have been corralled into the business of fomenting useless, irrational guilt. Drs. Ryan and Jetha make this all as transparent as glass, and do it with style.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eStanton Peele, Ph.D.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Turns everything you thought you knew about sex on its head. A bold and unashamed assessment of the plentiful scientific data that illuminate the true origins and nature of human sexuality. Funny, engaging, and superbly written, this book explores the science behind what many of us suspected all along: human beings are not naturally monogamous.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eJulie Holland, M.D., author of Weekends at Bellevue\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"A healthy relationship with sexuality can be a strong positive influence on overall emotional and physical well-being. But understanding human sexual drives and needs and adapting them to social constraints and moral and religious precepts is tricky. Sex At Dawn challenges conventional wisdom about sex in a big way. By examining the prehistoric origins of human sexual behavior the authors are able to expose the fallacies and weaknesses of standard theories proposed by most experts. This is a provocative, entertaining, and pioneering book. I learned a lot from it and recommend it highly.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eAndrew Weil, M.D.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Sex At Dawn challenges conventional wisdom about sex in a big way... This is a provocative, entertaining, and pioneering book. I learned a lot from it and recommend it highly.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eAndrew Weil, M.D., author of Healthy Aging\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Sex At Dawn is a provocative and engaging synthesis... that has the added benefit of being a joy to read.... A book sure to generate discussion, and one likely to produce more than a few difficult conversations with family marriage counselors.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eEric Michael Johnson, Seed Magazine\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"This paradigm-shifting book is a thoroughly original discussion of the origins and nature of human sexuality. Despite its controversial perspective, Sex at Dawn is persuasive and supported by wide-ranging interdisciplinary research. These authors have a gift for making complex material reader-friendly, filling each chapter with humor and passion as well as dozens of revolutionary insights.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eStanley Krippner, Ph.D.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"One of the most original books I've read in years, Sex at Dawn manages to be both enormously erudite and wildly entertaining--even, frequently, hilarious. Ryan and Jetha slip effortlessly across millions of years, from the savannah of prehistoric Africa to the contemporary bedroom, presenting cutting-edge research with clarity and wit. A must-read for anyone interested in where our sexual impulses come from, \u003ci\u003eSex at Dawn\u003c\/i\u003e helps explain why modern men and women behave as strangely as we often do.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eTony Perrottet, author of Napoleon's Privates\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"One of the most original books I've read in years, Sex at Dawn manages to be both enormously erudite and wildly entertaining--even, frequently, hilarious. . . . A must-read for anyone interested in where our sexual impulses come from.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eTony Perrottet, author of Napoleon's Privates\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"You clearly have an exciting book on your hands, whether people agree with it or not: these are issues that will need debating over and over before we will arrive at a resolution.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eFrans de Waal, author of The Age of Empathy\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"So many separate moments in my life, I've thought in regards to something in the world, in society, 'That ain't right!' What's so unbelievably powerful about \u003ci\u003eSex At Dawn\u003c\/i\u003e is that it makes cohesive all those separate moments...it's helped me understand myself and the world so much more clearly.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eIlana Glazer (Broad City)\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"\u003cem\u003eSex At Dawn\u003c\/em\u003e has helped me understand myself and the world so much more clearly.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eIlana Glazer, co-creator of Broad City\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Sex At Dawn is the single most important book about human sexuality since Alfred Kinsey unleashed Sexual Behavior in the Human Male on the American public in 1948.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eDan Savage\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"This paradigm-shifting book is a thoroughly original discussion of the origins and nature of human sexuality... These authors have a gift for making complex material reader-friendly, filling each chapter with humor and passion as well as dozens of revolutionary insights.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eStanley Krippner, Ph.D.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha have written the essential corrective to the evolutionary psychology literature...\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eStanton Peele, Ph.D.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Funny, witty, and light ... Sex at Dawn is a scandal in the best sense, one that will have you reading the best parts aloud and reassessing your ideas about humanity's basic urges well after the book is done.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eNewsweek\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"The writing is engaging, the material covered is appropriate, and really it is the best non-technical summary I have read of the relevant issues.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eTodd K. Shackelford, Ph.D., professor of psychology, Florida Atlantic University, and editor of Evolutionary Psychology\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"A wonderfully provocative and well-written book which completely re-evaluates human sexual behaviour and gets to the root of many of our social and psychological ills.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eSteve Taylor, author of The Fall and Waking From Sleep\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublisher Marketing\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"\u003ci\u003eSex at Dawn\u003c\/i\u003e challenges conventional wisdom about sex in a big way. By examining the prehistoric origins of human sexual behavior the authors are able to expose the fallacies and weaknesses of standard theories proposed by most experts. This is a provocative, entertaining, and pioneering book. I learned a lot from it and recommend it highly.\" -- Andrew Weil, M.D.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \"\u003ci\u003eSex at Dawn\u003c\/i\u003e irrefutably shows that what is obvious--that human beings, both male and female, are lustful--is true, and has always been so.... The more dubious its evidentiary basis and lack of connection with current reality, the more ardently the scientific inevitability of monogamy is maintained--even as it falls away around us.\" -- Stanton Peele, Ph.D.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA controversial, idea-driven work of evolutionary psychology and anthropology that challenges everything you (think you) know about sex, monogamy, marriage, and family. In the words of Steve Taylor (\u003ci\u003eThe Fall, Waking From Sleep\u003c\/i\u003e), \u003ci\u003eSex at Dawn\u003c\/i\u003e is \"a wonderfully provocative and well-written book which completely re-evaluates human sexual behavior and gets to the root of many of our social and psychological ills.\"\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWhat if our struggles with monogamy, jealousy, and libido aren't a personal failure, but an evolutionary mismatch?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eThe Standard Narrative: \u003c\/b\u003e A look at how the conventional story of human monogamy was built on flawed, outdated assumptions from the Victorian era.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003ePrimate Politics: \u003c\/b\u003e Why our peaceful, hypersexual bonobo cousins may be a better model for our ancestral past than the violent, hierarchical chimpanzee.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eForaging Societies: \u003c\/b\u003e An exploration of our hunter-gatherer ancestors, who lived in fiercely egalitarian groups that shared food, child care, and even sexual partners.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eSperm Competition: \u003c\/b\u003e How human anatomy--from testis size to the female orgasm--points to a prehistory of multiple mating partners for both sexes.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eModern Relationships: \u003c\/b\u003e A new framework for understanding why passion fades, why so many struggle with monogamy, and what it means for our relationships today.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eContributor Bio:\u003c\/strong\u003eRyan, Christopher\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eChristopher Ryan, PhD, is a research psychologist. He lives in Barcelona, Spain.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eContributor Bio:\u003c\/strong\u003eJetha, Cacilda\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eCacilda Jethá, MD, is a practicing psychiatrist. She lives in Barcelona, Spain.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\u003c\/table\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Ryan, Christopher\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Harper Perennial\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eBinding:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePub Date:\u003c\/b\u003e 2011-07-05\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eBISAC:\u003c\/b\u003e Psychology|Human Sexuality (see also Social Science|Human Sexuality)|Health \u0026amp; Fitness|Sexuality|Psychology|Social Psychology|Psychology|Mental Health|Psychology|History|Psychology|Evolutionary Psychology\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSubjects:\u003c\/b\u003e Sexual behavior in animals|Marriage|Sex|History|Human evolution|Social evolution|Sex customs|Primates|Sexual behavior|Monogamous relationships\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.7 lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN:\u003c\/b\u003e 9780061707810\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eASIN:\u003c\/b\u003e -\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSKU:\u003c\/b\u003e SP-9780061707810\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Harper Perennial","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51154255413526,"sku":"SP-9780061707810","price":29.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0857\/9910\/8886\/files\/9780061707810_spiral.png?v=1774939590","url":"https:\/\/lusper.myshopify.com\/products\/sex-at-dawn-how-we-mate-why-we-stray-and-what-it-means-for-modern-relationships","provider":"Lusperbooks","version":"1.0","type":"link"}