{"product_id":"notice-and-do-raise-capable-kids-end-motherhood-burnout-and-lighten-your-mental-load","title":"Notice and Do: Raise Capable Kids, End Motherhood Burnout, and Lighten Your Mental Load","description":"\n\u003ctable align=\"center\" border=\"0\" cellpadding=\"2\" cellspacing=\"0\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd class=\"productDetailSmallElements\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eReview Quotes\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"There will be the world before \u003ci\u003eNotice and Do\u003c\/i\u003e and the world after \u003ci\u003eNotice and Do\u003c\/i\u003e. A breath of fresh air and hope for families everywhere.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eKristen Bell\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"This book is going to change the world. It's phenomenally practical and the best application of the mental load work in action that I have ever seen.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eGemma Hartley, author of Fed Up and No One Loves an Angry Woman\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Busy moms don't need another thing to do--they need other people to step up. Sam's system shifts household responsibility where it belongs: with each member of the family. This is exactly what we \u003ci\u003eall\u003c\/i\u003e need right now.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eLiz Tenety, co-founder of Motherly\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"I wish my mom had had a Sam Kelly in her generation--someone who speaks boldly, advocates for women, and believes that moms deserve to enjoy their lives. Read this book and buckle up! I never thought one phrase could lead to so much more ease in my life.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eDestini Ann, TEDx speaker and author of Very Intentional Parenting\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Rather than adding more to a parent's already full plate, this provides a doable approach that actually helps lighten the load while empowering children to become more capable and independent.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eDr. Siggie Cohen, author of You Are the Parent\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"This book is a gift. A practical and inspiring roadmap that has the potential to strengthen kids, support parents, and transform family life.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eTina Payne Bryson, PhD, co-author of The Whole-Brain Child and No Drama Discipline\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Refreshing and will immediately change your home. These concepts started making a difference before I even finished reading! That is how effective they are. Sam is the 'lazy genius' of teaching kids how to share the mental load.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eKendra Adachi, New York Times bestselling author and host of The Lazy Genius podcast\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"An essential, actionable toolkit for transforming how we approach the work that runs our lives. Everyone should read this!\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eLaura Danger, author of No More Mediocre, @thatdarnchat\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"This is the book exhausted moms have been waiting for. It helps kids not only build executive function--it hands the power back to parents in a way that actually feels doable.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eMichael McLeod, MA, founder of GrowNOW ADHD, author of The Executive Functioning Playbook\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"So much more than just a way to manage housework. This is the simple blueprint that frees mothers suffocating in a do-it-all (by yourself) system and restores belonging and competency to partners and children.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eShelly Miller, MA, child development, @theteachermomma\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"The perfect blend of empowering, relatable, and DOable. I felt a shift inside myself from day one of reading. This will be life-changing for any parent who feels like they're drowning.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eMia Wisinski, @playfulheartparenting\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"This book is first aid for families. It helps parents see new potential. Life skills with realistic and healthy expectations! It's a better way to live!\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eLiesa Card, Sam's mom\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Refreshing and will immediately change your home.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eKendra Adachi, The Lazy Genius\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"This book is going to change the world. It's phenomenally practical and the best application of the mental load work in action that I have ever seen.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eGemma Hartley, author of Fed Up and No One Loves an Angry Woman\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"I never thought one phrase could lead to so much more ease in my life.\" \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eDestini Ann, parenting coach, author, and Tedx speaker\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublisher Marketing\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eLighten your mental load and end mom burnout for good with a new kind of parenting book that teaches your kids to \u003ci\u003enotice\u003c\/i\u003e what needs to be done at home--and do it--\u003ci\u003ewithout\u003c\/i\u003e waiting to be asked.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003eYou're sick of the constant push-and-pull to get your kids to clean (which, let's be real, often ends up with you doing it yourself). With \u003ci\u003eNotice and Do\u003c\/i\u003e, there's a new way. Through accessible but revolutionary techniques, parenting coach Sam Kelly will teach you how to empower your entire family to share the mental load and proactively contribute at home with eight black and white illustrations and 14 photos.\u003cbr\u003eThis proven, research-backed method breaks the cycle of burnout and inequitable partnerships, liberating moms from the burden of being the engine that keeps everything running, and sets your kids up to be self-motivated, resilient adults. 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