{"product_id":"after-the-affair-third-edition-healing-the-pain-and-rebuilding-trust-when-a-partner-has-been-unfaithful","title":"After the Affair, Third Edition: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful","description":"\u003ctable align=\"center\" border=\"0\" cellpadding=\"2\" cellspacing=\"0\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd class=\"productDetailSmallElements\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eReview Quotes\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"The most comprehensive and balanced book I have ever read on the subject. It is\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eDr. Harville Hendrix\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Dr. Spring possesses a remarkable combination of clarity, wisdom, spirit, and heart. This is an extremely helpful and healing book--a gift to us all.\"\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e - \n\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eHarriet Lerner, Ph.D., author of The Dance of Anger\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e\"After the Affair \u003c\/em\u003eis a wonderful guide for couples who want to reconstruct their relationship after one partner has been unfaithful. In clear, sparkling prose, Dr. Spring explains the sources of infidelity and offers sound, sensible guidelines for mending the relationship.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eAaron Beck, M.D., founder of Cognitive Therapy and author of Love Is Never Enough\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"For married or cohabitating couples who want to rebuild their relationship after one partner has had an affair, this tough-minded, insightful manual will be eminently practical...This wise book fills a gap on the self-help shelf.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"This new, updated edition of \u003cem\u003eAfter the Affair\u003c\/em\u003e is a must for anyone going through an affair, recovering from betrayal, or working with a couple who needs advice. If you want your relationship to book, buy this book. Her wisdom applies to all of us.\" - \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eTammy Nelson, Ph.D., author of When You're the One Who Cheats\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublisher Marketing\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e\"Full of juicy, concrete advice to heal from an affair.\" --Esther Perel, MA, LMFT, \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eMating in Captivity\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eThe State of Affairs\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eFrom a clinical psychologist who served as a clinical supervisor in the Department of Psychology at Yale University, received the CPA's award for Distinguished Contribution to the Practice of Psychology, and has treated couples and trained therapists for over four decades, this newly updated, award-winning book provides concrete, proven strategies for those who seek to survive their partner's infidelity and to rebuild the relationship after an affair.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThere is nothing quite like the devastation caused when a partner has been unfaithful, making the path to infidelity recovery seem impossible. Hurt partners often experience a profound shattering of their familiar and valued sense of self and fall into a depression that can last for years. For the relationship, infidelity is often a death blow.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis new third edition of \u003ci\u003eAfter the Affair, Third Edition\u003c\/i\u003e, with more than 600,000 copies sold, helps guide both hurt and unfaithful partners through three stages of healing: normalizing the crisis, deciding whether to recommit to their partner, and rebuilding trust and sexual intimacy. It includes a new section in which patients ask questions not addressed in previous editions, and the author provides concrete strategies for improving communication in relationships, earning trust, and achieving forgiveness.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis compassionate and authoritative guide provides a roadmap for healing, with actionable strategies to: \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eSurvive the Initial Trauma: \u003c\/b\u003e Understand why your feelings--whether you're the hurt or the unfaithful partner--are a normal response to crisis and learn how to manage the overwhelming emotional fallout.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eDecide Whether to Recommit: \u003c\/b\u003e Explore your doubts, fears, and ideas about love to make a thoughtful, deliberate decision about your future instead of an impulsive one.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eLearn from the Affair: \u003c\/b\u003e Decipher the meaning of the infidelity, accept an appropriate share of responsibility for it, and prevent the same problems from happening again.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eRenew Trust and Intimacy: \u003c\/b\u003e Discover concrete steps for the unfaithful partner to earn back trust, for the hurt partner to open up to connection, and for both of you to become sexually intimate again.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eContributor Bio:\u003c\/strong\u003eSpring Janis a\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eJanis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D., is a nationally acclaimed expert on issues of trust, intimacy, and forgiveness. 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